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You have no idea the truth, you have no idea of their marriage dynamics, and you shouldn’t be in the midst of it. If you find out your guy is in this situation, tell him to call you back when his marriage is OVER. I didn’t start dating in earnest for seven months post-split and when I did, there was zero chance of any reconciliation ever. If you find yourself post-split and are ready to start dating, you need to think very clearly about your motives. You must focus on you, your children, your divorce proceedings, and your life first. I bumped into him recently and he was a little drunk but all over me.I admit to pushing him to make a few dates along the way but have never text or called him before he has done so.
I wonder why you’re interested in dating this man after: As a dating coach for women, I say any of these is reason enough not to see him again!
I will give you one exception here: If he has separated from his wife eons ago, the divorce is moving along at a decent pace, and the divorce just isn’t done… I had stopped all communication with him except between lawyers. Even if you manage to keep the relationship going for a long period of time, even post their divorce being final, you have now ended up with a boyfriend who has yet to deal with anything. It’s exciting and interesting to look at who is out there. That’s how you proceed as healthy as possible with the next phase of your life. Each situation is different but I’ll say at least six months.
I had taken (some) time to heal the best way one ever can and gain perspective first. But before you proceed, you’d better make sure that the end of the marriage is simply a signature away and nothing less. He needs time to address why his marriage ended, come to terms with his own culpability, help any children he has to come to terms with the end of his marriage, and to reconfigure his life. You may have been in a sad and lonely marriage and you are ready for your next step. And before you start dating, develop some boundaries for yourself.
They had filed for divorce several months prior but continued living in the same home until just weeks before we met. The problem with dating a recently separated guy are numerous. If you believe that it’s ok to date a married guy, then you can stop reading right here.
Because if you’re morally and ethically ok with that, then you date really horrible men and you deserve the men you date. And when your guy cheats on you and makes your life hell, you deserve it.