Dating for men over 40

Are you new to modern dating’s selfies, swiping, ghosting, and catfishing?

Even if you’ve been at it for a while, you’re still likely feeling overwhelmed and frustrated by it all.

That decision can be pretty liberating – especially when you’re dating in your 40s: There’s no biological clock ticking away, which can put pressure on new relationships. You don’t have to limit yourself to men in your age group Not to feed the cougar cliché, but by the time you reach 40, the social stigma of dating younger men is so passé.

In my experience, younger men really don’t care much about age differences.

As to the “why” behind the lack of date-nights, nearly 60 percent say they don’t need a relationship to be happy.

More than 40 percent said they were considering it, but not actually doing it.

Perhaps the benefit of not haemorrhaging energy into family stresses? But according to TODAY’s “This is 50” survey results, only 18 percent of single people in their 50s said they were dating.On the positive side, the age 50-plus daters seem to be pretty darn smart when choosing a date-mate.Most people want to find a friend or a life partner, and to meet the dates who may fulfill this desire, many 50-somethings, about 80 percent in fact, do it the old-fashioned way — through friends or family. Dating after 40 or 50 means taking control of your love life, just like you do the rest of your life. Make sure you get to talk about yourself in a meaningful way as well. It will bring out the best in him and insure that you both have the best time possible. I Love You, there is something valuable to learn from every date.It means being kind to yourself and the men you meet. I have compiled a list of Dating Do’s and Don’ts exclusively for women like you. These are for the woman who is done repeating the same mistakes, and is ready to find her grown-up love story.1. Baggage bonding is when an early date shifts into deep conversation about some baggage you have in common. You start comparing your horrific ex-spouses or your crazy awful dates. Men know who and what they want, often better than we do. But every day I coach women like you through situations they wish they didn't get into. If he walks away from the date having shared too much or hasn’t learned about you, then there won't be a second date.

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