Dating courtship engagement
If a couple is never alone together, they never have that one-on-one opportunity to relate and get to know one another in emotional and spiritual intimacy.In addition, some courtship situations have led to borderline “arranged marriages” by the parents and have resulted in resentment in one or both of the young people.Of course, the courtship style presents its own set of difficulties.
Does God have one specific person for you to marry? What is an appropriate level of intimacy before marriage?Are we supposed to be actively looking for a spouse? The Spanish have a reputation as a romantic people, smoldering with uncontrollable passion.Finally, care must be taken to avoid the pitfall of believing one’s personal preference—dating or courting—is the “only way” and looking down upon those who make the opposite choice.As in all things, the unity of the body of Christ should be of utmost importance in our minds, regardless of personal choices others make pertaining to issues on which the Bible is silent.