Dating bukharian jewish man
Are his words, “I care only for what’s best for you” grounded?
] Any sort of physical contact or intimacy, as it brings people closer together, tends to bind—a kind of glue as it were—but as glue should be used to bind together only when a permanent bond is decided upon, physical contact should begin only after the marriage itself.
There is no ultimate danger if a girl employs her femininity to charm a young man into turning a fleeting interest into a more serious one.
Young men, however, sometimes deceive a young woman into thinking that they are in love, while all they want is a physical relationship.
Intimacy without true love, commitment and permanence is a price too high to pay.
Why does Jewish Tradition demand that the relationship between men and women before marriage stop at the point of physical contact?
Also, once the principle of ‘no contact’ has been violated, there are often no other barriers effective enough in helping two people to restrain themselves from further kinds of involvement that could lead naturally to a intimacy.
A physical relationship is an essential element in the binding together of two people in marriage.
[Therefore, objectivity is distorted, and the essential relationship becomes confused…are we really headed towards commitment?Let the woman use her “feminine charm”; it’s her legitimate prerogative, a healthy manifestation of her femininity.It’s quite one thing to be charmed by it, but don’t be taken in don’t let it blind you; don’t fall for it.Nor is romantic love an end in itself, so that it cannot and should not be accepted in defense of any type of behavior in any male-female relationship which is less than a properly controlled one.Such explanations as “We couldn’t help ourselves, we just fell in love”, or “we didn’t realize what was happening” are excuses, not reasons, because people usually do realize very well indeed, what is happening; they all too often try to convince themselves that certain forms of intimacy are justified because the two individuals concerned happen to be truly in love.